Thread: Emotional Intelligence - The good and the bad!

Originally Posted by Sheero

Thank you for sharing your experience Bhavya.I should try this in future

It's My pleasure Sheero Yeah you should try, At starting it will be difficult but with time you will learn to manage it.

Originally Posted by Karikaalan

It's a new term -emotional intelligence-
Yes . Analyzing too much may result in disturbed mind. sometimes may irritate others around us .

Yes Karikaalan over analyzing cause unwanted troubles to us and the people around us.

Actually whoever has EI shouldn't be around me a lot. I might end up slapping them, coz I don't like being questioned for each and every decision I make. And I don't desire to be a test rat for anyone's emotional intelligence hunger. Maybe if those people know how to keep their thoughts to themselves, then it can be pretty useful.

Does people with EI question every action of others? I never come across of these kind of EI people, They must be irritating.

But seriously, Overthinking somethings might spoil the magic every moment holds. Think of it! If someone does a sweet thing and if someone else gives her/him a detailed analysis on why he/she did it and the motive behind it, then life would be messed up.

True Shana overthinking and over analyize kill the pleasure and the magic of the particular moment. I often spoil the good moments with my overthinking. I Should change myself

Originally Posted by Assassin

Generally it's all about understand our emotion and others emotions, but psychologically it's all about how you react for the emotions. EI is much needed one for everyone but most of them made mistake on how to react for it. The is a need of control in everything.

True Assassin, EI is not only about understanding emotions, It's also about how we react to a particular emotion.