Judging A Person!

**Moana** · 07-04-2018, 12:42 PM

HI GUYS!

Judging a person has become a trend these days I guess lol especially girls do this! If we don't like a person we either judge them to be a good person or a bad one even without actually getting along with them!

I have seen people who judge others according to their dressing sense even!

Why do you think people judge other people? what makes them to do so? Is it a mental issue or something like that? Is it right to judge others?

**Shana** · 07-05-2018, 01:49 AM

Originally Posted by Shivani

HI GUYS!

Judging a person has become a trend these days I guess lol especially girls do this! If we don't like a person we either judge them to be a good person or a bad one even without actually getting along with them!

I have seen people who judge others according to their dressing sense even!

Why do you think people judge other people? what makes them to do so? Is it a mental issue or something like that? Is it right to judge others?

That's plain human nature. Judging someone is unavoidable. Our minds will automatically judge them even though we don't voice them out. That habit is hard-wired into the human brain.

Some people feel guilty for judging others in their mind and some just don't care. They say it out as a gossip. The latter one is the poisonous habit. If we choose to understand things even after our brain judges them, that's alright I guess.

**Moana** · 07-05-2018, 10:17 AM

Originally Posted by Shana

If we choose to understand things even after our brain judges them, that's alright I guess.

So very true, some people do feel guilty when judging a person while some don't even care. Judging a person is in our DNA lol

**Bhavya** · 02-12-2019, 12:34 PM

Originally Posted by Shana

That's plain human nature. Judging someone is unavoidable. Our minds will automatically judge them even though we don't voice them out. That habit is hard-wired into the human brain.

Some people feel guilty for judging others in their mind and some just don't care. They say it out as a gossip. The latter one is the poisonous habit. If we choose to understand things even after our brain judges them, that's alright I guess.

I totally agree with you, Shana, Whether we accept it or not we do benchmark people around us. But I believe if we understand the person and situation there is nothing right and wrong and understanding is the best way to stop judging. Because I never judge the people or their doings who I understood very well.