What is something you hate doing that society expects you to do?

**Shana** · 09-02-2018, 05:15 AM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

They want you to behave like a typical girl, But tell them you're not typical you are a unique and extraordinary girl, Whatever the society say be yourself , One day they will realize you are best the way you are.

Haha,I am going through this situation,It's really irritating till now my mom saying these thing to me.

Lol! I'm tired of telling them. Even if my mother accepts me, my relatives won't. They are the ones who accuse my mother of not bringing me up properly as a good girl. That is enough for my mother to question the fact of me being me.

**Shana** · 09-02-2018, 05:18 AM

Originally Posted by Shivani

yeah, some of my freds face the same problem, they are being mistaken as being tomboish

Wanna know who invented the term "tomboy"! Really? Can't a girl be herself without being labelled as something every time? First of all, people should be made aware of how "boys" and "girls" are basically born "human".

**Bhavya** · 09-03-2018, 10:29 AM

Originally Posted by Shana

Lol! I'm tired of telling them. Even if my mother accepts me, my relatives won't. They are the ones who accuse my mother of not bringing me up properly as a good girl. That is enough for my mother to question the fact of me being me.

What to do this the sad reality of society,Relatives means trouble makers

**Shana** · 09-06-2018, 06:09 AM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

What to do this the sad reality of society,Relatives means trouble makers

It's fine if they are troublemakers... What to do if they talk behind my back? I just grew a thick skin for those people and I don't pay any attention to them.

**Bhavya** · 09-06-2018, 01:30 PM

Originally Posted by Shana

It's fine if they are troublemakers... What to do if they talk behind my back? I just grew a thick skin for those people and I don't pay any attention to them.

Yeah ignorance is the best option, We can't stop them from "backbiting", So for our own good we should ignore those people.

**Lorraine** · 09-11-2018, 05:34 PM

I hate for people treating for girls and boys in two different ways.
So in our home my brother have the permission to travel overnight with friends an because of a girl I have to be home by 6 p.m.
I like to walk with friends at night. But because of that I never got that chnace.

**Bhavya** · 09-12-2018, 12:21 PM

Originally Posted by Lorraine

I hate for people treating for girls and boys in two different ways.
So in our home my brother have the permission to travel overnight with friends an because of a girl I have to be home by 6 p.m.
I like to walk with friends at night. But because of that I never got that chnace.

In our country ,Most of the family have this restriction for girls,our parents should understand we girls also should have same freedom like boys.

**Moana** · 09-12-2018, 01:15 PM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

In our country ,Most of the family have this restriction for girls,our parents should understand we girls also should have same freedom like boys.

Your point does make sense, but have a question for you! Why do you really think parents are restricting limiting our freedom, it is because they care for us. What would really happen once if we're granted to have freedom like boys?
Maybe we should think from a parent's perspective as well, this is how I feel.

**Bhavya** · 09-14-2018, 05:53 PM

Originally Posted by Moana

Your point does make sense, but have a question for you! Why do you really think parents are restricting limiting our freedom, it is because they care for us. What would really happen once if we're granted to have freedom like boys?
Maybe we should think from a parent's perspective as well, this is how I feel.

If our parents have full trust in us they will give us the freedom. It's in our hand as well we have to make them to trust us.