Thread: What is something you hate doing that society expects you to do?

Hello Friends,

Our society push us to do the things which we hate to do.
Sometimes we have to do them for our family.


What are the things society expect you to do which you hate to do?

Originally Posted by Karikaalan

Finishing my degree which is totally irrelevant to my job.... 

I know it's really irritating thing,But think that you're gaining knowledge in a different field and finish your degree then you're free to follow your passion no one will question you

The very first thing is to make me behave "like a girl". I like being the way I am. I won't be the made-up doll in functions or answer every unfair stupid questions of people who never care about me or my family.
I am a human. But people insist on forcing me to meet the characteristics that they consider to be womanly. Am I not a human? Don't I have the freedom to embrace my quirkiness? Why do I have to pretend to be the silent, meek girl? If that's not me, what is the use of pretending to be one?

They want you to behave like a typical girl, But tell them you're not typical you are a unique and extraordinary girl, Whatever the society say be yourself , One day they will realize you are best the way you are.

I'm sure almost every parent asks their daughter not to laugh aloud, not to speak loud, to sit without hurting the chair, walk without sound etc. And I have faced reprimands from my family and relatives for not behaving like a girl. Well, I know I am a girl. Is that my problem if others can't see it?

Haha,I am going through this situation,It's really irritating till now my mom saying these thing to me.

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Hello Friends,

Our society push us to do the things which we hate to do.
Sometimes we have to do them for our family.


What are the things society expect you to do which you hate to do?

In our society it is wrong to talk with a boy in streets, what our society wants us is o stay away from the boys1

Originally Posted by Karikaalan

Finishing my degree which is totally irrelevant to my job.... 

That sounds weird, go with what you love that would take you to the right path!

Originally Posted by Shana

The very first thing is to make me behave "like a girl". I like being the way I am. I won't be the made-up doll in functions or answer every unfair stupid questions of people who never care about me or my family.
I am a human. But people insist on forcing me to meet the characteristics that they consider to be womanly. Am I not a human? Don't I have the freedom to embrace my quirkiness? Why do I have to pretend to be the silent, meek girl? If that's not me, what is the use of pretending to be one?

I'm sure almost every parent asks their daughter not to laugh aloud, not to speak loud, to sit without hurting the chair, walk without sound etc. And I have faced reprimands from my family and relatives for not behaving like a girl. Well, I know I am a girl. Is that my problem if others can't see it?

yeah, some of my freds face the same problem, they are being mistaken as being tomboish

Originally Posted by Shivani

In our society it is wrong to talk with a boy in streets, what our society wants us is o stay away from the boys1

This is the sad thing of our society,If a brother and sister go out in the street our society consider them as lovers ,People should understand not every girl and boy are lovers ,They can be siblings,Friends, cousins,colleagues and etc.