Do we care too much what people think of us?

**Bhavya** · 05-11-2018, 09:58 AM

Seeking approval from others in our personal and business lives is not unusual. But in a world where we live so much of our lives online, the approval of others is more and more relevant.

Have we become a society that cares too much what other people think of us?

Does it hold us back?

Does it even matter?

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**Arthi** · 05-11-2018, 01:28 PM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Seeking approval from others in our personal and business lives is not unusual. But in a world where we live so much of our lives online, the approval of others is more and more relevant.
Have we become a society that cares too much what other people think of us?
Does it hold us back?
Does it even matter?

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Everyone should have a self assessment. We need to define our own ethics and values but it�s different for person to person. When we know that we are doing correct we don�t need to care about what others think about it . Sometimes we feel Reluctant to do somethings in this scenario we have to care about the others ( people who really care about us) approvals or opinion. Day to day life if you are waiting or expecting for other�s approval you can�t even walk yourself.

**Beacon** · 05-11-2018, 02:50 PM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Seeking approval from others in our personal and business lives is not unusual. But in a world where we live so much of our lives online, the approval of others is more and more relevant.
Have we become a society that cares too much what other people think of us? Does it hold us back? Does it even matter?

I would say it depends on what kind of person you are and how you will take this feedback and it's matter " how you think and how you will take it "but definitely how others think about you in a general cases.

**Bhavya** · 05-11-2018, 04:00 PM

Originally Posted by Arthi

Everyone should have a self assessment. We need to define our own ethics and values but it’s different for person to person. When we know that we are doing correct we don’t need to care about what others think about it . Sometimes we feel Reluctant to do somethings in this scenario we have to care about the others ( people who really care about us) approvals or opinion. Day to day life if you are waiting or expecting for other’s approval you can’t even walk yourself.

You are partially correct Arthi , Sometimes we think we are doing correct But in reality we're not .In this scenario we definitely want someone to point out our mistakes.The moral is we have to be open to the ideas of others for our own growth.

**Bhavya** · 05-11-2018, 04:27 PM

Originally Posted by Beacon

I would say it depends on what kind of person you are and how you will take this feedback and it's matter " how you think and how you will take it "but definitely how others think about you in a general cases.

True words, But it's in our human nature we always want to hear good things about us, If someone say anything negative about us even if it's for our own good we become intolerable.

**Moana** · 09-04-2018, 10:31 AM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Seeking approval from others in our personal and business lives is not unusual. But in a world where we live so much of our lives online, the approval of others is more and more relevant.

Have we become a society that cares too much what other people think of us?

Does it hold us back?

Does it even matter?

fearofcriticism.jpg

PS: waiting for your Answers ,Guys

Yes, as far as I've experienced we are totally concerned about our society than our own concerns!