Getting married at early 20s is good or bad?

**Bhavya** · 11-05-2018, 05:32 PM

Our 20s are a time to study about ourselves and to shape a life for ourselves that endures and fulfils us. That doesn�t mean we can�t date/love during that period because most of us definitely should do it, But Nowadays people getting married in their early 20s. What do you think of getting into a big commitment like marriage at your early 20s is a good or bad Idea?

**Shana** · 11-07-2018, 01:30 AM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Our 20s are a time to study about ourselves and to shape a life for ourselves that endures and fulfils us. That doesn’t mean we can’t date/love during that period because most of us definitely should do it, But Nowadays people getting married in their early 20s. What do you think of getting into a big commitment like marriage at your early 20s is a good or bad Idea?

Definitely bad in my POV. maybe it's good biology-wise for reproduction process and all. But I hardly think any person has the maturity to lead a life with someone at that age. I personally wasn't so much matured in mind at that age and as far as I know all the girls my age weren't. Being in a relationship requires some kind of deep thinking ability, if not it could lead to a toxic or abusive relationship.

**Karikaalan** · 11-07-2018, 06:56 AM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Our 20s are a time to study about ourselves and to shape a life for ourselves that endures and fulfils us. That doesn’t mean we can’t date/love during that period because most of us definitely should do it, But Nowadays people getting married in their early 20s. What do you think of getting into a big commitment like marriage at your early 20s is a good or bad Idea?

there is a saying " dont try to get married before 30. try to get married when you are ready," the age does not matter. , maturity of the individual is the key.

**subasan** · 11-07-2018, 10:29 AM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Our 20s are a time to study about ourselves and to shape a life for ourselves that endures and fulfils us. That doesn’t mean we can’t date/love during that period because most of us definitely should do it, But Nowadays people getting married in their early 20s. What do you think of getting into a big commitment like marriage at your early 20s is a good or bad Idea?

People getting married in 20's is mostly their parent decision. People are more liberal today. Marriage is more than a commitment, it's more of an understanding. And that understanding needs time and age. So, if you ask me, late 20's and early 30's is the right age to marry. But that's me.

**Bhavya** · 11-07-2018, 05:56 PM

Originally Posted by Shana

Definitely bad in my POV. maybe it's good biology-wise for reproduction process and all. But I hardly think any person has the maturity to lead a life with someone at that age. I personally wasn't so much matured in mind at that age and as far as I know all the girls my age weren't. Being in a relationship requires some kind of deep thinking ability, if not it could lead to a toxic or abusive relationship.

True Shana, Some of us are not matured in our early 20's and I personally believe that we should get married when mentally ready to enter into a big commitment and responsibility. But as you said doctors suggest that girls should get married before their 30's otherwise they may have to face fertilization issues.

**Bhavya** · 11-07-2018, 05:58 PM

Originally Posted by Karikaalan

there is a saying " dont try to get married before 30. try to get married when you are ready," the age does not matter. , maturity of the individual is the key.

I agree with you maturity is more important than age and there is no connection between maturity and age.

**Bhavya** · 11-07-2018, 06:01 PM

Originally Posted by subasan

People getting married in 20's is mostly their parent decision. People are more liberal today. Marriage is more than a commitment, it's more of an understanding. And that understanding needs time and age. So, if you ask me, late 20's and early 30's is the right age to marry. But that's me.

I have the same thought as you, But I have seen many happy living early 20s married couple. So as you said it all depends on the understanding and maturity.

**Assassin** · 11-15-2018, 09:55 PM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Our 20s are a time to study about ourselves and to shape a life for ourselves that endures and fulfils us. That doesn’t mean we can’t date/love during that period because most of us definitely should do it, But Nowadays people getting married in their early 20s. What do you think of getting into a big commitment like marriage at your early 20s is a good or bad Idea?

There is saying know as "Life begins at 30", it means the maturity begins at 30. Early 20's is a very bad to idea marry I think.

**Bhavya** · 11-16-2018, 12:50 PM

Originally Posted by Assassin

There is saying know as "Life begins at 30", it means the maturity begins at 30. Early 20's is a very bad to idea marry I think.

I never heard this saying before, I didn't agree that maturity begins at 30. In fact, maturity comes through experiences, there is no connection to maturity and age.