What do you love about someone you hate?

**Bhavya** · 12-19-2018, 12:19 PM

People often say something like: "I love you but I hate you at the same time.� Likewise, we may hate someone still we love something about them. Can you guys tell me what do you love about someone you hate?

**Thuva** · 12-20-2018, 05:33 PM

Quite interesting... Haters are our motivators said by Kanye West... I do believe in that. Your hater is enough to advertise your achievement. No need to elaborate than this. Earn haters and start achieving.i

**Bhavya** · 12-20-2018, 05:49 PM

Originally Posted by Thuva

Quite interesting... Haters are our motivators said by Kanye West... I do believe in that. Your hater is enough to advertise your achievement. No need to elaborate than this. Earn haters and start achieving.i

Your thoughts are really inspiring, I totally agree with you, But I think you forgot to share what you love about your hater.

**subasan** · 12-21-2018, 10:01 AM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

People often say something like: "I love you but I hate you at the same time.” Likewise, we may hate someone still we love something about them. Can you guys tell me what do you love about someone you hate?

Irrelevant answer!!

There is enough hate around the world already. I don't hate anyone even the people who back-stabbed me. Instead I don't feel anything for them from that point and will proceed with my life. I consider it's a waste of our time which can be used to build our self better(mentally or physically). I don't show them grey but just BLACK.

**Bhavya** · 12-21-2018, 12:45 PM

Originally Posted by subasan

Irrelevant answer!!

There is enough hate around the world already. I don't hate anyone even the people who back-stabbed me. Instead I don't feel anything for them from that point and will proceed with my life. I consider it's a waste of our time which can be used to build our self better(mentally or physically)..

So you are saying you have neutral feelings for your backstabbers (neither love nor hate). It shows your maturity, From the past few months I am practising to be neutral with the people who hurt me, I can say I am having a good process in it.

I don't show them grey but just BLACK

I believe there is no black or white. all of us are grey personalities ( mixed of positive and negative)

**subasan** · 12-21-2018, 01:27 PM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

So you are saying you have neutral feelings for your backstabbers (neither love nor hate). It shows your maturity, From the past few months I am practising to be neutral with the people who hurt me, I can say I am having a good process in it.

Good luck with your progress.

I believe there is no black or white. all of us are grey personalities ( mixed of positive and negative)

If you mean black as impure(negative) and white as pure (positive), I'm really sorry, I contradict with your point. Here I meant black as in void and nothing else.

**Bhavya** · 12-24-2018, 10:17 AM

Originally Posted by subasan

If you mean black as impure(negative) and white as pure (positive), I'm really sorry, I contradict with your point. Here I meant black as in void and nothing else.

If you meant black as void, I agree with your point