Thread: Which is best for your future life?

Originally Posted by Vaishnavi

Nowadays, many people like to do love marriage but I don't know, If it's suitable for our future or not. I am not neither supporting arrange marriage nor love marriage,I just want to know which one is best for our future. Let's share your own thoughts on this regard.

It doesn't matter which type of marriage you are doing,It's all depend on the love, understanding,respect and friendship that you have between you and your partner.Always choose a partner to share your life not to own your life.

Originally Posted by Dhara

Hello Vaishnavi,

This is really difficult question as different people have different opinions and perceptions. So We can't say which one is best. Its all depends on our understanding, maturity, respect, care, love, Patience, trust and etc.


For arranged marriage: This is arranged by your parents or guardians. So they never push you on a bad life. before choosing the partner they will think 1000 times to take the correct decision. after the arranged marriage, some people go for the divorce because of their misunderstanding and irresponsible activities. If they take care of their partners they also live a happy life. So in arranged marriage also understanding, maturity, respect, care, love, Patience and trust is important.But Here It will take sometime to understand each other and build trust.


For love marriage: Here they choose their partners according to their taste. even though we can't give 100% assurance for a happy life. Because here also fight, Hatred, misunderstanding, and all will happen.But here both have a good level of understanding with each other and they have tremendous level trust. So here they can plan everything and work to achieve their couple goals because they know very well about each other.


In this world some people happy on their loved life and at the same time some people lost their loved life. The same goes to the arranged marriage life. So here what I'm trying to say is both have disadvantages and advantages. It depends on our understanding, maturity, respect, care, love, Patience, trust and etc.


"Start your life with full understanding and talk with your partner openly. You can live your life without any other heads involvement."

Well written answer Dhara, as you said everything depends on the couples understanding,trust,love and care. And you are right in love and marriage we shouldn't involve a third person.