Why Are Parents More Concerned About The Cast When It Comes Down To Marriages?

**Karikaalan** · 06-13-2018, 02:27 PM

Originally Posted by Shivani

Yes true, but do you really think that marrying between two different Caste's would really bring a solution? Won't that bring a even worser situations among the family?
Getting married to two different caste would reduce this problem , but I think only few families out there would understand and agree with the marriages!

The biggest misunderstanding in our soceity about marriage is this. Marriage is about two individuals. Why can't one person oppose his family for his life? That's the way we are grown up. We have to realise that marriage is a freedom of an individual

**Assassin** · 06-13-2018, 03:14 PM

Originally Posted by Shivani

This is true in fact, caste on marriages can only be stopped through parents mindset nobody else

Then today's younger generation will be parents tomorrow. So we have a responsibility change this. If we wait someone to do, then it'll continue like a chain.

**Bhavya** · 05-03-2019, 05:20 PM

Originally Posted by Moana

Hello everyone!

These days cast and religion are the two major aspects parents consider when it comes down to a marriage especially tamil parents! It doesn't matter whether it is a ''Love'' marriage or ''Arranged'' the first thing that comes out from our parents mouth is, '' What cast and religion she/he is?" If I'm right, this is what is happening in most of our homes.

Don't you guys think this is kind of an odd thing? A hurting thing especially if it a Love marriage? We know that this can't be literally stopped

since this has uhmm I think the right word to be used here is '' TRADITION'' for us if I'm right?
And religion is a problem as well, it is like we can't marry a person from a different religion if we do so either we would be chased out of our house or even killed

We all know that this can't be stopped, maybe you guys would have an idea on how to prevent this or something like that, so it would be great if you guys could go on and share your thoughts!

Because in this modern world marriage is the only option left for them to maintain their cast, so when it come to marriage they want keep it within their cast.

**Bhavya** · 05-03-2019, 05:22 PM

Originally Posted by Assassin

Then today's younger generation will be parents tomorrow. So we have a responsibility change this. If we wait someone to do, then it'll continue like a chain.

Well said Assassin, Our generation is the future parents, So if we change our mindset we can easily make a change in this world.

**Bhavya** · 05-03-2019, 05:26 PM

Originally Posted by Karikaalan

The biggest misunderstanding in our soceity about marriage is this. Marriage is about two individuals. Why can't one person oppose his family for his life? That's the way we are grown up. We have to realise that marriage is a freedom of an individual

I agree marriage is the freedom of an individual. But we need people and their support to live our live that's why we don't want oppose our parents by hurting them we are not going to live a good life but if their reason for not accepting our decision is senseless then we should take the necessary action.